Happy or sad heart?

Como dijo Paulita en uno de sus posts:
"...Have you ever heard the phrase "life doesnt always turn out the way you plan it"? I have. Its one of the first lines of one of my favourite movies. I always thought that was true, and it IS true, it doesnt turn out the way you plan it.
On the other hand, you have to go through rough stuff in order to learn, you cant learn from a happy heart, you learn from a broken heart..."

I couldnt possibly agree more, but if I have to choose, I prefer to learn from a happy heart of course, anyway I still believe that the more you suffer the more you learn, I dont consider myself masochist in any way but its the truth. Its curious how much one can learn and admire how another person can express herself. Pau I dont know you at all but I really admire the way you can express what really happens through your mind in such a transparent way...